Our Wedding
Monday, September 22nd, 2008When I got married one year ago, my friend gave me a prize for my happy day. They asked me what kind of prize that I like and I answered “Up to you Guys”. After this day, I tried to focus on my ceremony and celebration party so I never thought again what kind of prize that will be given to us. Few days closer to the wedding day, I was so busy to communicate with my girl friend about wedding preparation. Some questions always came out from my mouth about detail stuff or every plan for our celebration. We knew this moment is very important for our future with new style as a couple of husband and wife so we try the best to make everything walk smoothly as our plan. Our preparation was begun with flowers, decoration, red rugs and books for our blessing ceremony in church.
We knew that our wedding was a very special case for our both family, that’s why we have to focus on every detail in every plan for our ceremony and our celebration party. We have some limitation on the time and fund so we have to get all stuff what we need as cheap as possible like we buy some cheap rugs and other cheaper stuff. For us that are not big deal as long as the function still work well. For the decoration in the celebration place we took a package with video and photograph so we can get cheaper price and save some funds for other purpose. We didn’t have pre wedding photos because for us that’s not very important and to replace it we use our existing photos for our wedding invitation letter and for our welcome identification in front of entering door.
For me and my girlfriend especially, this moment was very hard because we stayed under pressure for months just for 2 days moment. We thought all preparation for months with minimum support from our family but we have a commitment to keep on the track and the show must go on. Until one day before our wedding ceremony we still got some resistant and not smooth situation that made us become little depression with all of this. Finally on the H-day we can run every single plan of moment with the good result even not 100% like expected. Our wedding ceremony in church can run smooth and we are very happy with our family and all of guest. In the second day, the celebration day, we can give the best celebration for all of guest so we can share our happiness. Our celebration was very special because all of floor was covered by area rugs that we bought several days before. The decoration is great and made this celebration look so exclusive even with limited fund but the important thing was we already married!